tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post8663854472645693817..comments2023-04-04T07:26:09.997-07:00Comments on Searching for our silver lining: Fighting togetherCristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-27944125971529629692017-11-15T18:22:46.799-08:002017-11-15T18:22:46.799-08:00So much to deal with here. I can imagine that you ...So much to deal with here. I can imagine that you and Grey together are a force to be reckoned with. Living with so much stress day to day has got to be exhausting. I'm glad that so far you are managing it without turning on each other -- when I am stressed and frustrated I can vent and be loud and angry and sometimes Bryce doesn't get that I'm not mad at him, I'm just mad. BUT, we have a great rule -- only one person can be crazy at a time. If we sense that we're both heading to crazytown, one of us usually figures out to dial it back so the other person can get the crazy out without it amplifying. It works. I hope you can find a way to be a consolidated fighting team through all this mess, apart and together. Jeezum, what a month. Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-29461839002444230582017-11-10T07:21:49.254-08:002017-11-10T07:21:49.254-08:00I get this. When you're living amid unpredicta...I get this. When you're living amid unpredictability in the e biggest areas of your life -- work, kids, living space -- there is no margin, no reserves to call on when something new upsets the apple cart. I'm glad you are intentionally deciding to stay on the same side of issues.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-58920992503955426902017-11-09T16:57:09.343-08:002017-11-09T16:57:09.343-08:00I'm sorry you're going through all this. (...I'm sorry you're going through all this. (I've just caught up on your last few blogposts). But yes, I'm glad that you're not fighting each other. It is so easy to do, when you're feeling stressed. I know I take things out on my husband if I'm feeling stressed. So, good for you. Pat yourselves on the back, and feel a little bit proud. You deserve it.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.com