tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post331276793008664820..comments2023-04-04T07:26:09.997-07:00Comments on Searching for our silver lining: CrossroadsCristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-62265488865559433262012-07-07T09:39:11.857-07:002012-07-07T09:39:11.857-07:00Just catching up reading. Happy Anniversary! It ma...Just catching up reading. Happy Anniversary! It makes me so happy to hear you and Grey have found some peace and are kicking your lives back into high gear. I totally know how IF puts the rest of your life on hold.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-79139590455903039652012-06-30T17:29:10.491-07:002012-06-30T17:29:10.491-07:00Happy anniversary!
Loved what you said about stag...Happy anniversary!<br /><br />Loved what you said about stagnation. Been thinking a lot about that myself.<br /><br />As a fellow in the fertility wars, I completely feel what you're saying. I've reached the point recently when I'm wondering at what point I'll close the book on trying to have 'my own' and move on to other options.<br /><br />As an adoptee I can tell you that the world needs some kick ass adoptive parents (so I'm glad to see the world is getting some more), and that in my experience adoptee's tend to be the most loved children in the world (as I was).Stupid Storkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00161877442649107282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-43616834079974732372012-06-30T13:49:39.680-07:002012-06-30T13:49:39.680-07:00Hey Cristy. This was such a touching post that I ...Hey Cristy. This was such a touching post that I waited to comment until I had time to read it a second time. It is wonderful to hear that you and Grey are in sync, and are able to look into the future and find excitement there. <br /><br />When you talked about being able to look at children now without jealousy, I can totally relate. Not that I'm there 100%, but I'm at least getting closer. <br /><br />There are exciting and happy experiences in your future, Cristy, and I can hear your optimism. Thinking of you!Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-59697026493900814702012-06-30T11:42:04.662-07:002012-06-30T11:42:04.662-07:00Extremely well-written post.
I wish you all the be...Extremely well-written post.<br />I wish you all the best luck on this next chapter in your lives; both on the Adoption front and in terms of all the "me projects" that you are going to take on. It's so easy to fall into a trap of neglecting oneself.<br />When Jason and I first got together, my entire focus was on trying to figure out an inner tempo that would have us both marching to the same beat. Later, my energies were devoted to trying to conceive. During the past five years - except for a brief recovery from a severe anxiety attack last spring - I have completely ignored myself. I stayed in a job that was a terrible fit for me; six years ago, I took the job because I HAD to work to pay the bills. Circumstances had changed, but I was so distracted by other concerns that I didn't realize it was time to move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-1562340171606389212012-06-29T10:14:59.197-07:002012-06-29T10:14:59.197-07:00Things will be "okay" for you...it is ju...Things will be "okay" for you...it is just that the "okay" you thought it would be (biological children) will be a different "okay". In fact, it will be the BEST! It is just the journey that is difficult. Wishing you the very best as you both work through your next steps.Miss Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10205190242783133625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-84361344570483535632012-06-28T23:52:02.228-07:002012-06-28T23:52:02.228-07:00I know what you mean about stopping taking risks.....I know what you mean about stopping taking risks... I'd never thought about that and the effect it has. You always have so many wise words and a refreshing perspective. Thinking of you always xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-72668854321799445482012-06-28T16:02:26.657-07:002012-06-28T16:02:26.657-07:00Hubs and I *just* talked about this realization th...Hubs and I *just* talked about this realization that we've stopped taking risks too. I know exactly what you're talking about. The two of you have such an incredible relationship and are so strong. I have no doubt that together, you will become even stronger and can have this new life from this new chapter. And you will be amazing at it! So much love to you both. Happy anniversary!EndoJourneyhttp://www.journeywithendometriosis.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-24905681401008740632012-06-27T21:33:39.057-07:002012-06-27T21:33:39.057-07:00I'm so glad that you and Grey are moving forwa...I'm so glad that you and Grey are moving forward together. It sounds like over the last 8 years, and especially the last 2, you've become stronger and can lean on each other. Happy anniversary.Darylhttp://soonafamily.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-49633605508012422352012-06-27T19:32:07.199-07:002012-06-27T19:32:07.199-07:00Happy anniversary! I am currently struggling with ...Happy anniversary! I am currently struggling with finding peace. I was also just discussing "the rot" with a coworker earlier today. This process can consume your life, before you know it, years go by and nothing has changed except the depth of your pain. You're an inspiration.KayBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08658373485056670950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-8101390761063969412012-06-27T17:58:13.590-07:002012-06-27T17:58:13.590-07:00This post made me cry. Especially the bit about w...This post made me cry. Especially the bit about what Grey said to you. In the end, for all of us on this journey, we do at least have our partners/husbands and this is just such a comfort. Grey sounds like a rock. Very proud of you for everything you are going through right now.BWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02678105236745432509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-90939214360024485612012-06-27T13:21:14.343-07:002012-06-27T13:21:14.343-07:00*Hugs*
~Keisha~*Hugs*<br /><br /><br />~Keisha~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-72593852193093687782012-06-27T12:32:52.423-07:002012-06-27T12:32:52.423-07:00Beautiful. I am happy that you are in peace. xoxoBeautiful. I am happy that you are in peace. xoxoChanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04017110752688026884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-38328037882887252072012-06-27T12:32:41.030-07:002012-06-27T12:32:41.030-07:00Beautiful. I am happy that you are in peace. xoxoBeautiful. I am happy that you are in peace. xoxoChanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04017110752688026884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-20099475259149498552012-06-27T12:14:32.032-07:002012-06-27T12:14:32.032-07:00I am so happy to hear that you two are finding way...I am so happy to hear that you two are finding ways to move forward toward a happier and more fulfilled life. I think the things you have discussed and done recently just shows how strong and smart you are. You didn't waste a ton of time wallowing in your failed cycle, you mourned, picked yourselves up and began making positive plans. I am so proud of you you both and am in awe of your self awareness and goals. <br />I can't wait to see how this pans out my friend.ADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-9018014530352527542012-06-27T12:01:20.875-07:002012-06-27T12:01:20.875-07:00I'm happy that you and Grey are staying strong...I'm happy that you and Grey are staying strong. I know for a fact that this isn't going to be easy because I'm getting ready to close the door on my own DNA in a few months. Hoping that soon you'll have an adopted child to love and care for.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-62817764768767854322012-06-27T08:52:11.433-07:002012-06-27T08:52:11.433-07:00I'm glad that you've reached a place of pe...I'm glad that you've reached a place of peace on this journey. <br /><br />I know that things will be ok for you and Grey. You're both very strong and resilient...and you have each other. :)Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14101535107377688458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-2353036324361334892012-06-27T07:35:37.427-07:002012-06-27T07:35:37.427-07:00You found some powerful realizations about being s...You found some powerful realizations about being stuck in the waiting for baby. I can very much relate. All the things put on hold. How exciting to make some moves career wise. You seem to have a strong relationship and marriage. And it will be okay, now I'm curious to see how the next chapter play out in this story.marwilhttp://marwil.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-88870293157793347482012-06-27T06:23:54.298-07:002012-06-27T06:23:54.298-07:00what great news on the job! Somehow, someway, grea...what great news on the job! Somehow, someway, great things are going to happen for you two. I feel it deep down.Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-39548166889252060502012-06-27T05:22:28.589-07:002012-06-27T05:22:28.589-07:00This is beautiful and inspirational. You have bee...This is beautiful and inspirational. You have been in my thoughts so much lately. Grey sounds wonderful and oh so sweet - his comment about at least having you brought tears to my eyes. It feels like things are starting to shift for so many of us ... Definitely a time of transition. Good for you for embracing change and risk - I know the feeling of stagnation... Even taking a vacation in the fear of missing my baseline day has been wreaking havoc on our sense of freedom... <br /><br />You rock.Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15032718306225742021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-42568767164855396932012-06-27T04:58:44.290-07:002012-06-27T04:58:44.290-07:00I love that you are making all these plans. And, a...I love that you are making all these plans. And, as a resident, I highly rec Boston as an excellent place to live. Although that might be selfish of me - then I might get a chance to meet you! :)Her Royal Fabulousnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04008723588326617669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-64222246350915054002012-06-27T04:40:11.951-07:002012-06-27T04:40:11.951-07:00Thoughtful, sad, happy and beautiful!
Oh, how I c...Thoughtful, sad, happy and beautiful! <br />Oh, how I can relate to so many of those thoughts and the preparation I did to try and be more ready myself to maybe not ever be a mom before our last IVF results. (I don't think adoption would be an option for us, personally.)<br /><br />It sounds like you are living more healthy already and I can only imagine how much more you and Grey can do together. *big hugs*JustHeatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05373768249873098150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-91968743952099188732012-06-27T04:08:40.179-07:002012-06-27T04:08:40.179-07:00What a beautiful post, Cristy It sounds like you a...What a beautiful post, Cristy It sounds like you are starting on the path towards healing and that is so good to hear. And you're really coming to Boston next month!? If you want to get together, let me know! How fun and exciting that would be! xoShelley @ Tales from the Waiting Roomhttp://fromthewaitingroom.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-77159285158811290692012-06-27T03:58:03.728-07:002012-06-27T03:58:03.728-07:00Cristy, I am sorry that you've had to travel t...Cristy, I am sorry that you've had to travel this road, but I am amazed at how resilient you are. There is so much hope coming out of this post. You and Grey will be okay, you will have wonderful, exciting lives and someday you'll grow your family.<br /><br />Happy anniversary and good luck with your dual job search! (I'll be your friend if you move to Boston :) )sass @ (In)fertility Unexplainedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06322070279032931788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-64154620297754371462012-06-27T03:47:15.523-07:002012-06-27T03:47:15.523-07:00Hi. I,m here from Mel's LFCA, and just wanted...Hi. I,m here from Mel's LFCA, and just wanted to reach out to you. And to let you know that what you told your husband was true, even if you don't quite believe it just yet. It will be okay, however this works out. It gets better. It really does.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.com