tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post6204488994448416161..comments2023-04-04T07:26:09.997-07:00Comments on Searching for our silver lining: RubbishCristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-53687072612041182752012-01-27T10:16:24.221-08:002012-01-27T10:16:24.221-08:00We should collaborate on these pubmed searches! Th...We should collaborate on these pubmed searches! This is how I have spent the last few days as well, and came to pretty much the same conclusion. The scientist in me hates the lack of data that goes along with unexplained IF. My job is to fix things. I hate that I can't fix this. But I'm ever hopeful that despite the uncertainty, something will work!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-41555949037558818082012-01-26T17:13:05.084-08:002012-01-26T17:13:05.084-08:00Thanks Amanda. We're actually doing okay afte...Thanks Amanda. We're actually doing okay after the discussion on Saturday. Monday was a breeze because we got everything out and we're both receptive to what my RE had to say.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-52626717478481778662012-01-26T15:12:28.495-08:002012-01-26T15:12:28.495-08:00I am constantly worried about our loss happening a...I am constantly worried about our loss happening again. I keep diging to find more answers because I can't accept the possibility another preterm labor unless I do everything I can. <br />I am still searching for hints that I have incompetent cervix issues because I just have a gut feeling. No one will agree with me straight out, but I have my reasons.<br /><br />I am glad you are advocating for yourself. The more knowledge we have the better prepared we can be and the less guilt we will have IF something does happen. We will have done all we could.<br />MissCADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-85582316454295902982012-01-26T14:20:33.584-08:002012-01-26T14:20:33.584-08:00Unexplained infertility is an annoying diagnosis g...Unexplained infertility is an annoying diagnosis giving us nothing to research to ease our minds. The only thing that we can do is just listen to our specialists.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-75357194664951628332012-01-26T14:00:57.260-08:002012-01-26T14:00:57.260-08:00Glad you are comfortable with your Dr to discuss e...Glad you are comfortable with your Dr to discuss everything you need to talk about. Sorry you and DH had such a huge fight. Hoping soon things work out for you!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16700515921385894450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-23802781352140263852012-01-26T13:35:24.935-08:002012-01-26T13:35:24.935-08:00Hey girl - I've been thinking of you! I'm ...Hey girl - I've been thinking of you! I'm glad that you were able to meet with the doctor this week. Meeting with someone who can answer your questions, to some degree, and not be afraid to discuss any topic you feel you need to hash out. Sounds like you have a great RE.<br /><br />The possibility of history repeating itself may forever hang over us but I agree that we have to trust our doctors and proceed in the route that we believe is best. Even if there are people who don't agree, that decision is solely up to you and Grey and your doctors.<br /><br />I know for us, once we talked with the doctors and developed "our plan" going forward, we felt better. <br /><br />I'm really sorry you're having to make these types of decisions, it sucks. Know that we're hear for you to help you work through those decisions and emotions. xoxoLorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03333972592403553177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4129722175911979282.post-13628787993098188502012-01-26T12:28:22.607-08:002012-01-26T12:28:22.607-08:00I think it is great that you researching and becom...I think it is great that you researching and becoming more informed on these things. It sounds like you have a wonderful caring doctor. That is so important to be able to talk openingly with them and feel that they are very open to listening to our concerns.Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.com